Originally Posted by Lily
So.............. I'm wondering if, from this less than healthy starting point, I could find a way to love and care for both these men, in a way that fulfills them, too?
Yes, the three of you can find a way, it probably won't be easy but possible. What has helped me is going through the blogs and life stories. Learning from others highpoints and trying to avoid the pitfalls they found on their path.
I wish the best for all of you.