I don't quite understand something. You write as if you are new to polyamory, but yet you say your husband's had lovers for the last three years. It seems you have incorporated polyamory into your lifestyle for a while now. What is it about this one relationship that is different from any of the others? Or was it all just swinging before now? That doesn't seem so, to me, because his relationships were long-term. Neither the situation nor the problem are very clear to me.
Hot chick in the city.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me.
Last edited by nycindie; 05-21-2011 at 01:48 AM.