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Old 05-20-2011, 09:58 PM
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it wasn't a threesome in the usual sense
I'm not sure there is a usual sense for threesomes. Unless you're talking about the porn world and not the real world. Every threesome I've been part of in the real world has been unique--a completely different dynamic depending upon the people involved. Though, maybe it depends on one's definition of "sex" and "threesome." I've a very expansive definition of sex.

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Why am I scared when it is paper perfect?
Maybe you're still developing your trust of this person. Being suspicious about things being "too perfect" is one of the ways we emotionally protecting ourselves from possible disappointment. Sometimes things are "too perfect" in the sense they're not. Sometimes things are just perfect. The rub is those two situations can look the same in the beginning.
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