Originally Posted by tigrrrlily
i know, i know, if you;re not dating its not poly.
I hope no one throws that line at you. It absolutely drives me up a wall.
It's like saying you must not like chocolate cake because you haven't eaten any in a couple months.
It also ignores the fact that you can be very much crazy in love with someone without boinking their brains out--without even "dating" them, in fact.
In any event, yes indeed, there's lots of good advice about jealousy around here!