Ygirl, I'm seeing that. The forum is less than a year up, and I can only imagine how many people have been helped by the personal reflections and advice available here.
As for me, it's been a blessing. After reading some of the trials that other members have dealt or are dealing with, it caused me to reflect and reaffirm that love is not holding on, but in letting go. It's the simplest of concepts, and yet so easy to forget. (Or so it would seem).
I am now at peace, and it feels I have received more love than than I would have feared losing.
I'll keep you posted, if the forum would like. Thank you to the founders for giving me an avenue to vent. This was a problem in my own heart and mind, and I feel that putting it out here for scrutiny by like minded people helped me to separate the wheat from the chaff.