The day I stop caring about who Redpepper sleeps with is the day she knows my connection has either changed to a more platonic bond or has been lost...
That was a good sign that my 18 year marraige was over for me. But I am mono and work a lot differently then a poly person.
I can see why she would be concerned and agree with GS that a lot of that is probably driven by societal conditioning.
How do you feel about it? Do you care? What are your own values around sex?
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
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