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Old 05-19-2011, 06:51 AM
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Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
sorry, did I not say that?

*sigh*

never mind, maybe you blocked my posts...
[chuckle] Don't worry, RP. It's not a competition.

Everyone has their own way of taking in information. It might seem to you like you said the same thing. I think the OP might've read your original post the way I did... that you were saying Mono got to know your hubs by hanging with the family. It didn't sound like you were saying, go out with just the hubs, at least not the way TP did. No biggie, the good thing is that some good info was shared here with the OP.
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