Originally Posted by JakeBeaudrie
I'm a 38 yr old man who's been experimenting with poly for 2 months or so now.
Congratulations..... Your experiment seems to be a success!
If you can't be happy for her and for the two of you then perhaps honesty and accepting that a poly relationship is not for you would be in order. Definitely discuss your emotions with her. Listen closely when she discusses her's with you.
Trust me it is beautiful on both sides of the fence.