I have several relationships, I get what you mean. I find that all of them together makes a whole for me. To me its my tribe/family. I love all of them and the whole would not be whole without the parts. If it works then go with it.
It might help in being less confused to see what happens when you stop going on dates to have one offs and really see the picture you have created ahead of you. Just a thought.
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