Originally Posted by JuicyLish
Is this normal? I have no desire to see one man any more than any other (it is logistics which prevent me from seeing more of C). But my brain seems to feel like it is in one relationship with many facets rather than three separate relationships!
Well you ARE in one relationship - from your own internal perspective. Your relationship with life! And all these others (and more) ARE just different facets.
Interesting observation actually !
When that will change is when you start to really focus on the other instead of yourself.
Then you'll have a lot stronger sense of the individuality of each relationship.
And that's where (I think) the "real" starts. That's when we get really engaged. Beyond ourselves.