Usually when new poly partners meet the other partner, it's just a typical evening as you'd have with any friend. That's how it's gone when my gf and I have met each others' partners (or the one time I met the wife of a poly partner of mine). Just sit and chat, talk of many subjects. We never discuss being poly on these meetings, just whatever random subjects come up, as when you'd meet any new cool person.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
A standing prick hath no conscience. --Bill Shakespeare
me: Mags, female, pansexual, 60, poly-dating, and loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, poly, 38