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Old 05-18-2011, 03:15 AM
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This is extremely cliched advice in the poly community, but... communication is the way to go! Tell her that you'd like to spend more time with her without damaging her existing relationship, and try to figure out together if there's a way that could happen. For instance, could you guys plan a special, two-day weekend getaway together some time this year? It seems like a lot to ask, but if you give it enough time in advance and she clears it with the hubby, well, it's just two days. Regular, once-per-week get togethers have helped me a lot in my relationship with a lovely married lady... having that regularity has made it feel less like "well, we fit each other in when/if we can".
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