Ugh... men. So, her h was fine with you 2 having a very close friendship. And then he started to get into the idea of having sex with her right after you do. So, he gave the go ahead. And then, as soon as he got his rocks off by eating your semen out of her, he then said he was against you two having feelings for each other?
Thinking with his little head.
And you, in so vulnerable a position. It's very sad.
(If it's all true, which I still do not quite believe.)
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)