Hmmm. Oil Man works a lot of jobs and while we talk and text almost everyday, including fun sexy chat, I need physical interactions. I'm not someone that is satisfied with sexy text/chat or phone sex.
It's ok with me if I only see him every few months (his work schedule is that nuts) but I need to talk with him about scheduling dates in advance. The not sure when he's free thing is making me a bit irritable. If that doesn't work, maybe time to cut him loose.
1. Eager to see you and reluctant to leave Beloved 1, SW, 1, Oil Man 0
2. Wants regular consistent contact, asks for dates Beloved 1, SW, 1, Oil Man 0
3. Interested in you and your life Beloved 1, SW, 1, Oil Man 0
4. Wants to be helpful Beloved 1, SW .5, Oil Man 0
5. Is verbally and physically affectionate Beloved 1, SW 1, Oil Man 1
6. Wants to be romantic and sexual with you Beloved 1, SW, 1, Oil Man .5
7. Texts, emails or calls regularly Beloved 1, SW, 1, Oil Man 1
8. Acts like you are very special; doesn’t really want to date others Beloved 1, SW 0, Oil Man 0
9. If you are dating other men–willing to hang in there Beloved 1, SW, 0, Oil Man 0
10. Becoming more attentive and loving over time Beloved 1, SW, 1, Oil Man 0
11. Becoming more open to sharing his feelings and thoughts Beloved 1, SW, 1, Oil Man 0
12. Becoming more open to sharing his living space Beloved 1, SW, 0, Oil Man 0
13. Becoming more open to sharing his social life with friends and family members. Beloved 1, SW, .5, Oil Man 0 - SW and I share friends and enjoy meeting each other friends.
Score: Beloved 13, SW 8 Oil Man 2.5