Originally Posted by HappiestManAlive
someone who identifies as "mono" might very well have thoughts and feelings for other people, but never be comfortable in a plural relationsip, and someone who identifies as "poly" may very well be seeking something that ends up better fulfilled in a "mono" relationship, or may have some desire to be with one person while never being able to be fulfilled by just one. ...
You're missing the whole natural wiring thing here. Sometimes people are wired differently...accept it.