I have a non-sexual relationship, I call it poly because I love him. Some might not agree, but so what? What others do is not the issue here, what is is how you feel and if there is love involved.
Some people have a one night stand with someone and call it poly, you happen to have some really good people in your life that you like to share love and affection with... if that feels like more than friendship and it fits for you and works somehow to identify what it is that you are feeling, then call it a poly relationship if you wish. You get to describe yourself, that is a huge benefit to poly but also causes debate for some.
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