I'm sorry, I couldn't even read your whole post. All I want to say is, why worry about labeling your relationship? Who cares what to call it? The questions you should be asking yourself are, "Am I happy?" and "Is this what I want?" Don't put yourself in a situation you don't really want, and don't treat people in ways you wouldn't want to be treated, and don't put up with disrespectful treatment towards you. There - now wasn't that simple? Does it really matter if it matches up with what all the other kids are doing these days?
Last edited by nycindie; 05-16-2011 at 10:40 PM.