There is no need to post, its meant to be a place to lurk and learn... heh, *lurk and learn*
True. I have done my fair share of lurking and learning on the interwebs
Oh, and to update on my situation, I talked to my boyfriend (J) about the possibility of us being Poly. Initially he was a little shocked and confused, but once I explained to him exactly what Poly was, he calmed down a bit. Surprisingly, he was having Poly feelings all along too! I couldn't be happier right now. We have started to set boundaries for our new relationship structure. There are some jealousy issues we need to work through when it comes to me getting involved with other men, but we talked about it for a few hours and we are already making quick progress. He still doesn't know about me and our mutual friend (M) but that will come with time.