My 8 year old hasn't asked anything, I don't think he thinks about it. Have they asked? Or are you assuming they want to know. If they don't ask then don't say anything I think, and act like its normal. Kids are confident in the adults in their lives if they remain constant and are comfortable with their choices. If you aren't then "faking it until you make it" is okay too.
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