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Old 05-15-2011, 11:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Erin View Post
Sure, it was written for the traditional type of male/female relationship...
Not just male/female, but monogamous! I had to laugh at the "Dating Program of Three." So, the person who designed this quiz advocates finding and using two other people (but no sex! Heaven forbid!) to manipulate the first one and make them jealous enough to commit. Talk about basing a relationship on trust and honesty, huh.

What if the first one isn't the type to get jealous? Wah-wah. What does one do if you want all three to commit? Wah-wah-wah.

I think I will add a comment on her blog.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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