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Old 05-15-2011, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted by RobFire View Post

My advice would be to make the mental association when you are with your new lover to the fact that your being with them is a testament to the love and gift your primary partner is giving.
Yes! This is a good association to keep in mind.

When we started our V I was so giddy with NRE, I said to my bf, "I have just never been so happy!" I was bubbling over, positively BEAMING.
He laughed and then looked very sternly into my eyes and said, "And WHO deserves the credit for this???"
And I sheepishly smiled and said, "Yes, I know -- my HUSBAND!"

My bf is incredible for always reminding me of this, how terrific my husband is and how we must always be respectful and considerate of his feelings.

I couldn't wait to get home and smother my husband with kisses of gratitude and love. Which....helped a lot
Formerly married to Sundance
Boyfriend -- Butch Cassidy
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