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Old 05-15-2011, 01:06 PM
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It felt so good just to be honest and besides, she'd already figured it out anyone. The world didn't end. For so long, I felt like I couldn't talk to her because O had told me that if she knew she would kick him out of training. I was so afraid for so long of slipping up and disappointing them both.
It sounds like he handed you a ton of bullshit in the course of your relationship.
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