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Old 05-15-2011, 12:43 PM
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Heh-heh. Yeah, one of the things Dreamy was incredibly relieved about when we started seeing each other, was that we can talk about sex, and I don't mind him talking about sex with other people. His wife (they are separated) didn't really like sex much at all, and actually hated kissing. I can't figure that one out - he's an incredible kisser. Anyway, sex is his favorite subject, and is probably one of mine, too! I have always enjoyed being able to discuss sex and sexuality with my friends and lovers. It is healthy to be able to, I think.
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