I've recently begun talking about Polyamory with my boyfriend of 6 years. I've only just learned about it recently on the Steve Pavlina blog
. My boyfriend says he feels a little uncomfortable about it, but that he doesn't want to lose my heart and wants me to be happy. He had actually gone outside our relationship about 3 years ago, and it's been a struggle for me to forgive him for breaking the monogamy. But now I see the value in having multiple, loving relationships as opposed to confining, controlling, jealous exclusive ones. And I find that when other people enter the equation, our physical relationship takes off. I'm happy to have found this forum as we try to make a decision on venturing into this new life.
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