If your concern is that you could be a third wheel, I wouldn't suggest attempting to be a unicorn. You're 20, just date, sleep around and enjoy. I wouldn't take it at all as serious at your age. If I did it all again I would be honest with everyone and communicate openly with everyone about who I'm dating. I'm 41 now. Things get, well, complicated later.
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