Am i poly?
I am in a 20 yr marriage to a wonderful man. we decided we both could have a separate relationship once or twice a year with someone else, Rules: no friends, no bringing them home, be safe, don't flaunt other person, etc. Does this qualify as polyamory? Any advice would be helpful as this is all new to me. I am stuck in Maine of all places with no avenue to meet anyone so not even sure this will happen for me. We are extremely private and he doesn't want to know about my fling and i don't want to know about his. I feel so much better tho just knowing i can, like a huge burden is lifted and that i may be attractive to someone else so it has made me more focused on me which i like. Also not sure how to proceed with making sure i am safe. require test results? help!