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Old 05-11-2011, 04:22 AM
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Hmmm... okay, don't shoot me for this, but more than a few women in the world have tried what I'm going to say. It sounds very "soap opera-ish," but since C. is prone to drama, jealousy, insecurity, and neediness -- are you certain without a doubt that she actually is pregnant and not just telling you she is, to get you to be monogamous with you? Are you sure you are not being manipulated into giving her what she wants?

If she really is preggers, I'm also wondering why you weren't using protection, especially while things were shaky and knowing that a pregnancy would throw a wrench in the works? Common sense, man, common sense. You have as much responsibility for preventing pregnancy as the women does, I hope you know.
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