Maybe you could open up the options. A couple is rather daunting for a single person. Usually triads are made, not found. Perhaps you should try dating on your own and just have in mind that it might be an option later on.
I would also get involved with your local poly community. If there isn't one, create it. Add it to your dating profiles that you are interested in meeting like minded people just to have community around you and make new friends. Then organize an event to meet everyone that responds. That way you get to make new friends and see what comes out of it. Quite often relationship success comes not from dating sites, but from having close friends that turn into something more.
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