Originally Posted by zephyr23
Anyone have any advice on how to find like minded people?..seems so hard to find a girl who wants a couple for anything more than sex..we want a real relationship with a girl..getting frustrated..on the verge of giving up on a polyamory lifestyle before it even starts
Are you honest with them about wanting a relationship more than fucking?
Also, and this does seem to happen a lot with poly people. How many people did you date before you found your partner? Not everyone you find is going to be relationship interested/worthy. There HAS to be some expectation of trial and error. Not everyone is compatible.
You should be happy you are finding people, you have a chance
how many times do we read about people who can't even find interested parties.