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Old 05-10-2011, 11:19 PM
Ariakas Ariakas is offline
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Originally Posted by zephyr23 View Post
Anyone have any advice on how to find like minded people?..seems so hard to find a girl who wants a couple for anything more than sex..we want a real relationship with a girl..getting frustrated..on the verge of giving up on a polyamory lifestyle before it even starts ...advice? thanks
Are you honest with them about wanting a relationship more than fucking?

Also, and this does seem to happen a lot with poly people. How many people did you date before you found your partner? Not everyone you find is going to be relationship interested/worthy. There HAS to be some expectation of trial and error. Not everyone is compatible.

You should be happy you are finding people, you have a chance how many times do we read about people who can't even find interested parties.
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