I recently have entered a polyamorous relationship. My husband and I were best friends with another couple. Unfortunately Jill died a few months ago leaving our friendship devastated. My partner and I have experimented with light swinging in the past but found it to be empty and not very fulfilling. Jillís husband Fred has always been in love with me and those feelings were mutual. I have just never acted on my feelings because as a foursome we just did not want our friendship to change. My husband actually sent me to comfort Fred. This seems to have made the friendship between us three deeper and richer. I canít complain (I am very happy) but having two husbands takes some getting used to. I joined to get some insights into how and why polyamorous relationships work and what keeps them working smoothly.