It is a big decision. Any of us who have had a child know that... It changes your life completely. It is a relationship that lasts a life time. Its like starting a triad up with someone that know matter what will be there for the rest of your life. The thing is is to decide on a triad with a child or a vee with this other woman right now.
Her neediness is concerning. I hope she is working on that. I would hate to see it lead to co-dependence, especially with a child coming. That would be worth working on together before anything else.
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