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Old 05-10-2011, 07:53 AM
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If I were in love, I would rather see my partner loved by someone else and treated with respect and tenderness, and acknowledged as the beautiful human being I know they are, rather than being used as a disposable, convenient fuck toy. Maybe you could express that to your husband, then he might be able to see things from a different perspective.
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