Originally Posted by TruckerPete
You know MT, there might not be an answer that she won't be able to poke holes through.
How about that you have tried, really tried to deny your feelings for ten years and maybe she could try the other way for a little while?
Yes, that is certainly one of the things I would say. There's lots that I have been thinking about, organizing what I want to say in manageable, respectful chunks, trying to think about how
to say things as much, if not more than, what
to say. I think it would be very useful to talk about concepts as topics for thought, then back off and give her time to think. This is getting somewhat afield from the original topic, however.
Still and all, this has been an interesting discussion.