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Old 05-09-2011, 08:34 PM
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Do you view your relationship to them as poly, while they view it as sort of swinger-ish? Like you're just a "third" they "play" with, and not actually a living, breathing human being they are in a relationship with? It sounds that way. "Oh, our live sex toy isn't available, let's go find another!"
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