Thread: Making Amends
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Old 05-09-2011, 08:15 PM
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I noticed you said you're not bisexual. Would it be healthier for all if you pursued a vee, instead of a triad?

They might feel the need to pursue other sexual relationships because she wants to feel like someone is sexually attracted to her, and not just putting up with her. It might also explain why she's not particularly apologetic about it--she might have enjoyed feeling desired, and may not really regret it as much as you want her to.

A vee might free her up to date other people on her own, and you could negotiate a relationship and boundaries with the husband (who does seem to regret it).

Just throwing the idea out there.
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