Originally Posted by Lady
The whole idea is to welcome another partner in. I don't want just a fling, I will be looking for something long term - I know that you have to build things to that point, of course.
I'm more wondering how other people have made it work.
sorry, maybe I wasn't clear. I meant it sounded more like *you* wanted a new partner. Not one that you and your partner would share necessarily. I don't recall reading that it was about your present partner being involved intimately.