Thank you for welcoming me Erosa! I know logically that our relationship is not diminished in love, but I'm still trying to figure out it's scope and depth. I'm going to keep trying to figure things out until I'm blue in the face, though! I've gotten permission to post whatever details I want about our lives here, so I'll be asking from help from here on in.
EDIT: I started a thread in the New to Polyamory subforum about my current struggles with wrapping my mind around the concept of polyamory and with remaining emotionally present in my relationship. It's here: (http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=9694