I'm about ready to give up on poly, just because dating has been so incredibly sucktastic lately. I'm exhausted.
But I'm not really ready to give up. Just thinking I'd love to take a break from all these first dates that haven't been turning out right.
But, some people do end up finding a good partner, so I have hope. Just tired of all the work and stress of meeting new people right now.
Besides, I love being with my primary, and knowing we are poly, we can do things like flirt, and openly check out hotties on the street, and do sexting messaging if we feel like it, or talk freely about sex and kink with anyone we want, look at all the porn we want, go to burlesque shows, cuddle, things like that, with no jealousy.
And since my gf does have another partner, it's handy that I am poly, so I can support her.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
In a newish relationship with Steve, (34, poly)
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 3 years