Originally Posted by MorningTwilight
I am married to a terrific woman, whom I love, and I'm bitching because she is resistant to the idea of me being in love with other women.
Just what kind of a selfish idiot am I?
You're not selfish. You've had these feelings for ten years. Do you really want to live with them for twenty more??
Selfish would be cheating. Or rushing into poly. You are doing neither of these things.
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. POLY IS A VALID WAY TO LOVE.