Um, he could babaysit?! As I said; and she can watch her children when you guys go out. You don't need money to go out. Have a walk, have a cup of tea together at home, give her a massage. Sorry, but having no money is no excuse to me to not spend time together.
Its too bad you were lead to believe nre is short lived. Assumptions in poly don't mix I have learned. Now you're stuck. So make changes and if it doesn't work. Move at the end of the year. I made several suggestions in my post.
Maybe reading my blog will help. I live with my two guys. Never know, might be of interest.
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