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Old 05-04-2011, 07:45 PM
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I think its a matter of choice really. What is your poly compared to hers? I understand that you care about her, maybe even love her, but perhaps your gut is telling you something about your core values, what you would prefer in a relationship or maybe there is something missing. I only offer this as a thought, of course I could be totally wrong and you really wish you were as permiscuous and datable as her.

By the way. I don't think you're a loser. If it is that you value a connection that is built on getting to know someone first and something a bit more special and private about your sex life, I would date you over her any day just on the grounds of values alone. I just thought it should be said that there is room for that. My poly is not not of the "dating" and casual sex variety. Yours doesn't have to be either.
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