I am "E" (prefer to just keep it simple). I am not married but I have been in a relationship with a married woman for over a year. It started as a very casual experience but developed into something much more serious. In mid-December we said "I love you" and things have continued to develop from there. Oh, to back track - in case you are wondering, her husband knows about all of this. Ok... so in the past month she has chosen to stop seeing others (this relationship didn't start as a polyamorous sort of thing, more... of what is called "Hotwife"). I do not "demand" she doesn't see anyone else, just that if she does I want to know about it so I am not caught off guard and I that we can address the feelings that will surely come up from that. She has recently encourage me to find someone else though - not a "buddy" but look for something that can become serious - because I would like kids and a family someday (she already has both and cannot provide that for me in my life but wants me to experience it for myself). I want to keep my relationship with her. She has not only been a great lover but my best friend for the better part of the past year. I know it will be hard to find someone who will choose to be part of a new relationship with me while joining part of the dynamic of an existing relationship. (anyone have advice
?). Anyway... that is who I am. I do not know if she or her husband will register on here or not (we are all part of a different forum as well). But I thought this would be a good place for me to learn from others and their experiences. I am glad their are resources, like this, availble.