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Old 05-04-2011, 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Magdlyn View Post
A LDR, mostly online play? I don't get that. I prefer irl play!
Hehee, I forgot to mention that this is Finland and if the train ride takes over 30 mins, it's officially long-distance!

So more like a weekend IRL thing was what I had in mind.

Originally Posted by Hannahfluke View Post
Could someone point me to a good beginning Domme information source? Preferably either online or that I could get in an e-book format?

The last few times I've been with my other partner that I've been dating on and off for a year and a half, there's definitely been a desire on his part for me to be more dominate. I have no issue with that, necessarily, but I am kind of a little lost. My husband and I have been vanilla our whole marriage, so any type of kink is fairly new to me and started with this other relationship. I've read "Screw the roses, send me the thorns" and while it was a good overview of BDSM in general, I'd love to find something a little more geared towards the domme side of things.

I've followed some of the links on Franklin Veaux' BDSM page at was a portal-like site that had some interesting bits and pieces as well.

There are also plenty of books specifically written for (novice) dominant women.
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