Originally Posted by BlackUnicorn
I can totally relate to BDSM weirdness, Mags.
What's the first impulse you get when you see someone who is getting the living shit kicked out of them, crying and screaming?
To touch myself. *devil*
I would dearly like this person I'm seeing to find a really nice Domme (don't know why I'd prefer a woman) for some long-distance fun, who wouldn't get into weird power-struggles with me. But it's their life, so who am I to interfere? But I know some real shit-head would just make my life miserable too, so I can't get that emotionally involved without knowing what I'm up against first.
A LDR, mostly online play? I don't get that. I prefer irl play!
But yeah, there are way too many dom-asses out there.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
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me: Mags, female, pansexual, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, 37