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Old 05-04-2011, 12:09 AM
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Aeon Aeon is offline
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Location: New England
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Yeah I think you are right in that it's coming from a place of reactivity. You hit the nail on the head NY I do that a lot.

I don't know if I *can* just enjoy the dating... I think that often I am just too anxious about "where is this going" and "am I going to end up hurt/frustrated?". I don't want to go into a relationship like that!! It's not fair to the other person, not loving, and seems like it will sort of be a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Perhaps it would be a good idea for me to continue to take things slowly and also work on reducing my relationship anxiety (and attempts to control). A few months ago I was definitely more lighthearted about dating and such. Processing things on here is helping a lot too.
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