Yeah, being in the military presents its own issues with lonliness/separateness/getting things done!
I'm glad it helped though.
I said this on my blog (longer), but after Magdlyn asked me what it was that I was feeling in regards to what my husband is doing, the most I could come up with was curiosity -- and the discomfort of not knowing (not discomfort about what was going on).
I'm beginning to think I might have either GAD (generalized anxiety disorder) or some light version of OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder). Not just from this but connecting the obsessively thinking about something/worry from many MANY events in my life, since childhood.
I go to the counselor tomorrow, so I'll let you know what she says. Interesting though...