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Old 05-03-2011, 04:27 AM
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Wow... After reading this i have to say, I don't think poly is actually what you are dealing with.

You said your wife doesn't feel excited by you? That, to me ( and i am far from an expert) sounds like there is some underlying problem in the relationship between you and your wife.

There is an old business principle. When a company needs money to expand, that's good. When a company needs obey to survive, that's BAD!

I have to say that unfortunately, i have found many people enter poly when a relationship (rather than being truly healthy and looking to expand) is wounded and in need of new life force.

Maybe you should ask your wife for a break from poly until you and she have truly figured everything out.
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