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Old 05-02-2011, 09:18 PM
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It sounds like you're off to a good start. You've been honest with your hubs, got the go-ahead, know what his reservations/boundaries are, and are moving forward. A few questions: How long were you and hubs discussing it before you began seeing your lover? How long have you and your lover been involved? Is it just a FWB type thing or a more substantial relationship to you?

What specifically do you need advice with?
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