Have you listened to him express his brokenheartedness and tried to understand the depth of his pain and sorrow?
Have you apologized for behaving hatefully? Sincerely, lovingly and repeatedly?
Have you examined your heart to find out why you became so jealous you lashed out that way?
And made a plan with your others to help you avoid such toxic emotions?
Or come to an agreement as to acceptable ways to communicate your needs and desires so as to avoid a meltdown in the future?
These are all things that may help.
Good luck to you all.